Condoms are one of the most effective ways to prevent pregnancy and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections – but only when they are used correctly every time. Most problems come from simple mistakes. Here is how to get it right.
Before you start
- Check the expiry date printed on the box and the wrapper. Don't use an expired condom.
- Check the wrapper is sealed. Press it gently – you should feel a small air bubble. If it is torn or dry, throw it away.
- Store condoms properly – somewhere cool and dry, not in a wallet or a hot car for long periods.
Putting it on
- Open the wrapper carefully with your fingers – not your teeth or scissors, which can tear the condom.
- Check which way it unrolls. The rim should be on the outside, like a little hat.
- Pinch the tip to squeeze out any air and leave space for semen.
- Place it on the tip of the erect penis before any genital contact and roll it all the way down to the base.
- If you put it on inside-out by mistake, throw it away and use a new one.
During sex
- Use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant if you want extra comfort. Never use oil, lotion, petroleum jelly or baby oil with latex condoms – they weaken the latex. Browse safe lubricants.
- If you feel the condom slip or break, stop and replace it.
Taking it off
- After ejaculation, hold the rim at the base while withdrawing, before the erection goes down.
- Slide it off away from your partner, wrap it in tissue and throw it in the bin – don't flush it.
- Use a new condom every time you have sex.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Putting it on halfway through instead of at the start.
- Using two condoms at once – friction makes breakage more likely.
- Using the wrong size. If standard condoms feel tight, try a larger fit; if they slip, try a snugger one.
- Re-using a condom.
Which condom should I start with?
If you are new to condoms, Durex Extra Safe offers slightly thicker latex for extra reassurance. For a more natural feel, try Durex Invisible. Allergic to latex? Choose SKYN non-latex condoms.
If a condom breaks and pregnancy is a concern, or you are worried about an infection, speak to a doctor or pharmacist as soon as possible.
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